I wouldn't characterize "You can't possibly be this dense" as verbal abuse. Twitter loses credibility every time they enforce their own policies inconsistently.

I wouldn't characterize "You can't possibly be this dense" as verbal abuse. Twitter loses credibility every time they enforce their own policies inconsistently. OP's incredulity that an actual human could look at that video and think it was revenge porn seems well-placed. The points about whether OP has paid Twitter money seem irrelevant; this is about Twitter enforcing their own policies correctly, not about some kind of standard of paid customer service.