3 ms·The ability is still there. Usually it’s the willingness that’s absent.by pohl 4y agoThe ability is still there. Usually it’s the willingness that’s absent.giantg2 4y agoIn some cases. In others the individual(s) may be irrationally emotional and might need a lot of therapy to overcome those emotional impulses.notch656a 4y agoI've seen couples where the ability was never there, even if the willingness was.