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That doesn't make any sense, because it being a "no-holds barred cage match" makes it more likely for one party to lose. Going in with a co-operative mindset (a

That doesn't make any sense, because it being a "no-holds barred cage match" makes it more likely for one party to lose. Going in with a co-operative mindset (at least until the other party demonstrates they are not) should be win-win.

giantg2 4y ago
"Going in with a co-operative mindset (at least until the other party demonstrates they are not) should be win-win." Completely agree. However, the underlying reason for many divorces is that they no long have the ability to cooperate or view things rationally.
- pohl 4y ago
  The ability is still there. Usually it’s the willingness that’s absent.
  - giantg2 4y ago
    In some cases. In others the individual(s) may be irrationally emotional and might need a lot of therapy to overcome those emotional impulses.
  - notch656a 4y ago
    I've seen couples where the ability was never there, even if the willingness was.