Find hobbies / meetup groups. If you want to improve your situation you need to actively work on it. It doesn't magically fall into your lap. Also, stop workin

Find hobbies / meetup groups. If you want to improve your situation you need to actively work on it. It doesn't magically fall into your lap. Also, stop working 9-8. Obviously it's more difficult to find the energy to do things when you're tired from working 11 hours per day.