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Good advice about talking to a lawyer and not going through a court proceeding. I suspect you will never know which cost more, but you can reduce the cost of a
by xbar 4y ago
Good advice about talking to a lawyer and not going through a court proceeding.
I suspect you will never know which cost more, but you can reduce the cost of any single path by finishing it as quickly, and with as few twists and turns, as possible.
- IncRnd 4y agoI absolutely agree. Nobody goes into a divorce thinking they want it to take a long time. Just get it over with, and keep as much trust as possible. That goes double when children are involved. It's not the kids' fault their parents are getting divorced, but they are the ones most impacted.
- SamoyedFurFluff 4y agoI would like to propose a caveat: some people go into a divorce with the intention to ruin the other person. This can make divorces long and ugly, because the purpose isn’t to get it over with but to right some perceived injustice by punishment.
- IncRnd 4y agoThank you. That's a good point.