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Thank you for speaking up for those of us who think WFH is overrated. This is the first time perhaps in my life where I have been beaten over the head by the i
by unethical_ban 4y ago
Thank you for speaking up for those of us who think WFH is overrated.
This is the first time perhaps in my life where I have been beaten over the head by the in-group that I am in the out-group. I'm a mostly straight, white man who never had to worry about being targeted due to who I am, and who never had to worry about food or housing. I'm smart and never had to work to get into college or get a good job.
Reading HN makes me feel like I'm insane to think that WFH is a major societal change that will hurt many people, especially younger people who are just getting into the workforce.
Kids who just went through two years of remote study, who will now be thrown onto macbooks shipped to them and told how to do their coding and learn corporate culture and understand their fucking job that is a third of their life from a desk at their house. Good luck making new friends. Hope you're religious or an alcoholic or a sex addict, because that's how you meet people in the digital age.
I feel like I'm taking crazy pills to think that interacting with people in person for some portion of the third of my life that is work is silly. I feel like I'm taking crazy pills to think that I should get some kind of social fulfillment out of the activity that I must complete to buy a table and put food on it.
I felt out of place today even chatting 30 seconds worth of brainstorming overtime on a zoom call, because no one "just talks" on zoom anymore to work out problems. We just zone out on Slack and trudge through our shitty WFH job, having many meetings but struggling to reach out for help.
I know WFH is good for many people and for many family situations, but I think the highlight of my professional IT life will have been my mid twenties when I really liked my coworkers and could actually feel like the work I was doing was a fun activity.
- benjaminwootton 4y agoI think online and technical communities veer towards being introverted. A lot of people I know in finance or sales would have gone nuts with the amount of WFH tech people are still doing.
- horns4lyfe 4y agoNo one is brow beating people who want to work in an office, as long as you respect that lots of people don’t want to. If you want to, great; every job I’ve talked to a recruiter about in the past two years has been fully remote if you want it to be, or in office if you want. If actually letting people decide how they want to work is so oppressive to you then sorry; otherwise you’re just playing into middle manager power trips.
- unethical_ban 4y agoBeing in an office alone/at a coffee shop is certainly better than being at home every day, but in person group collaboration doesn't work without a group.
- xdfgh1112 4y agoExactly. Most of the commenters already have a family and local social life, and probably know their colleagues from when they worked in the office together. It's totally different for graduates.