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This is so relatable. I've been there and I'm really sorry you're going through this. Is there something about you, something you like, that you could share wi
by rjleone 4y ago
This is so relatable. I've been there and I'm really sorry you're going through this.
Is there something about you, something you like, that you could share with them? You're trying to enter their world, that can be tough. Can you bring them into yours? I know, for an introvert, that's a big ask. But we introverts tend to like a lot of things!
For example, I read tarot and do a bit of astrology. You'd be surprised how many people wanted a reading when I offered them, even one woman that I KNEW did not like me. People also know I see every big movie that comes out opening weekend. So that gives them something to me about, because they know I'm passionate about those things. On the flip side, one of my coworkers is teaching me about dnd. There must be something you do or have as a hobby or are interested in that could be a good conversation starter!
But it does take time, unfortunately. Hang in there.