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> Also, for me at least, I have this weird anxiety that, whenever I tell someone I made a decision, that I could never go back on that decision. To me, especia
by MauranKilom 4y ago
> Also, for me at least, I have this weird anxiety that, whenever I tell someone I made a decision, that I could never go back on that decision.
To me, especially in technical contexts, I've always been afraid of backing away from a point I strongly defended before - because I want people to trust and what I say and not be afraid of relying on it, which is undermined by admitting fault.
However, admitting that you're wrong (and maybe even more so, admitting that you might not be right) is actually quite freeing: Nobody should expect you to be 100% perfect, and regardless of your technical prowess, if you challenge yourself you will sometimes fail. Communicating clearly when you are unsure about something, or when something made you reconsider your opinion, is just as valuable to how people perceive you as "always being right". As a bonus, it also helps keep you humble to admit to yourself that you won't always be right.