Basically, all manual. My wife and I have a joint account where all income goes. We then have a monthly stipend that is guilt free, no questions asked. The sti

Basically, all manual. My wife and I have a joint account where all income goes. We then have a monthly stipend that is guilt free, no questions asked. The stipend is a fixed sum and equal between us. We both have to agree to change it. We also agree amounts to go into savings. Since cash is fungible, we dont have budget pots really. This system ensures that it is fair, as I out earn my wife by a huge margin and reflects her non-financial work.