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I am in EXACTLY the same situation as you. New job of a few months outcast feeling. The trick is to figure out if it's your coworkers or your own mind or even
by edmcnulty101 4y ago
I am in EXACTLY the same situation as you.
New job of a few months outcast feeling.
The trick is to figure out if it's your coworkers or your own mind or even a little of both.
There are malicious coworkers that will work to undermine you.
There's awkward coworkers who will seem like theyre dicks but are just awkward.
Then your mind is not a reliable narrator either and can interpret People's behavior inaccurately.
All of these things are possible and there's no real way to know for sure what's accurate.
So all you can do is either work hard and do your best everyday or find a new gig.
There's no objective answer here I don't think because not only do we as your audience not know the context I don't think your mind fully knows the context.
My solution at the moment is to try my hardest and be polite and nice and act excited to be there and take it one day at a time.
I also document everything I do in Jira tickets in detail. Ask many questions in Slack so it's documented. If that's not good enough I'll get fired but everything is documented so if any higher ups look into their turnover it will be clear that they're firing people who didn't deserve it.
I think that's all you can really do.