Yes, as an adult who does not know his father, and as a son of a mother who went through 3 divorces, I would say crawl out of whatever box you're in and go enjo

Yes, as an adult who does not know his father, and as a son of a mother who went through 3 divorces, I would say crawl out of whatever box you're in and go enjoy life. I really hope your whole life isn't centered around the failures of your parents. Then again...sounds like you might be a good candidate to forego the whole marriage and/or relationship thing.