This is my experience as well. And it is critical to maintain a separation between "I personally would not prefer my unborn child be aborted" and "nobody should

This is my experience as well. And it is critical to maintain a separation between "I personally would not prefer my unborn child be aborted" and "nobody should be allowed to abort a child anywhere because abortion is equivalent to murder in all cases." You've gotta be comfortable holding both those thoughts in your head and realizing that your beliefs don't generalize to everyone. Judaism is littered with nuances and complexities that make it very different from other religious traditions that predominate in the US, for instance.