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You're expectation is wrong. The mortality rate alone is 23.8 per 100k for live births were it's only 0.7 per 100k for abortions and there many of the abortions
by space_fountain 4y ago
You're expectation is wrong. The mortality rate alone is 23.8 per 100k for live births were it's only 0.7 per 100k for abortions and there many of the abortions that resulted in death were for complicated pregnancies that would have been at high or even certain risk. Have you ever talked to your mother about what pregnancy was like for her? Mine has never quite gotten the bladder control back they had before and that was for kids they choose to have and love. Physically a pregnancy is insanely tough even when it goes well.
Emotionally, let me just say that the idea that giving a child up for adoption is pain free is crazy. Put yourself in their shoes. You've just gone through one of the most painful moments of your life. You have a crying baby in front of you, all of evolution, not to mention society, has conditioned you to at this moment rather than throwing away this little annoying being to sacrifice the next several decades of your life to the thankless job of caring for them and you think it's easy and uncomplicated to put them up for adoption?
I'm not saying abortions are uncomplicated of course, but letting a mother make that choice for herself seems much less likely to get it wrong, and frankly from where I'm sitting taking a pill seems a lot less traumatizing, but it a decision I will never actually have to make and I'm fine letting the people who will make the decision