You're whining. I agree that organizations that have endless meetings are organizations with too many unintelligent people: don't work for them. But wtf? You

You're whining. I agree that organizations that have endless meetings are organizations with too many unintelligent people: don't work for them. But wtf? You "love building and working" and you're "forever building my own side projects as I love it" so who are you to criticize "devs that go out of their way to work weekends without being asked"? Have you considered that they might love their job also? Stop whining. Apply to higher quality teams. (And watch out for your written communication giving a bad impression -- I think you're a native English speaker but you're confusing "bear" and "bare".)