> This kind of unhappiness the author is experiences comes from being unable to break free from the perceived expectations placed on her. The solution is to for

> This kind of unhappiness the author is experiences comes from being unable to break free from the perceived expectations placed on her. The solution is to form your own expectations of yourself and try to live up to them, but many people it seems do not have the courage to do this on their own. Mostly agree with this, but I wonder if a lack of “courage” is what’s actually preventing most from breaking free of societal values. It seems more like a lack of introspection and discipline. Introspection to identify the root cause of dissatisfaction, and discipline to retrain your mind.