i can provably determine whenever someone in my household is using youtube. We have "fixed wireless" as primary internet access right now, and the upstream is m

i can provably determine whenever someone in my household is using youtube. We have "fixed wireless" as primary internet access right now, and the upstream is measurably between 300 and 800 kilobits. However, the "router" assumes perfect connection (which i am guessing is somewhere around 5mbit) so any sort of QOS is out the window. And it's behind CGNAT, so i'm getting a class C on a class A private network, and all gaming stuff that doesn't like NAT to begin with balks. I've worked around that (check my github or whatever), but the fact remains, without literal triple-NAT my household can't actually use the internet as it exists, even with potentially 40mbit downstream speeds.