Yeah at some point it doesn't matter who's at fault. It matters who will make the change. We tend to think the entity at fault is the entity that needs to remed

Yeah at some point it doesn't matter who's at fault. It matters who will make the change. We tend to think the entity at fault is the entity that needs to remedy the situation. Whoever or whatever you believe is at fault, the person who is responsible for the change is always you. It's easy to blame something and then also mentally picture that thing / or person as the one in charge of fixing the problem. So maybe the motto is: It's not your fault but it IS your responsibility.