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If you don't mind me asking, how did you come to the realization that you talk too much? Did your colleagues tell you that, or did you figured it out by yoursel
by rubslopes 4y ago
If you don't mind me asking, how did you come to the realization that you talk too much? Did your colleagues tell you that, or did you figured it out by yourself?
- interleave 4y agoHi rubslopes, good question. As a neurodiverse person, I've been acutely aware of my impact on conversations for the last two years (since diagnosis). And I guess I just started noticing when I 'flew off the rails' and think to myself "Ohhh... Shit. I just 'lost' everyone." And how embarrassed that made me feel. Then I read this article https://hbr.org/2015/06/how-to-know-if-you-talk-too-much https://hbr.org/2015/06/how-to-know-if-you-talk-too-much which gave me some guidance and vocabulary that I didn't have until then. Then I started keeping tabs on my 'airtime' and I decided I had to build a simple feedback loop. Does this answer your question?
- rubslopes 4y agoYes, it does! Thank you.