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Yeah I feel like I am suffering with this with my teammates. How passive aggressive it would be if I shared this with my colleagues at work?
by shankr 4y ago
Yeah I feel like I am suffering with this with my teammates.
How passive aggressive it would be if I shared this with my colleagues at work?
- interleave 4y agoTo answer your question without knowing any context: I would err on the side of it being received as rather passive aggressive. I do not recommend using the app (especially not without context) as a proxy for a difficult conversation that may have to happen. Since the question came up earlier, here is my full take on this situation: https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=32097859 https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=32097859
- TameAntelope 4y agoDepending on how you did it, you could be quite “aggressive”! “Dave, found the perfect app for you!” is aggressive. “Wow I might start using this app!” Is better.
- shankr 4y ago> “Wow I might start using this app!” Is better. Yeah I thought about going this way.
- vorpalhex 4y agoTry talking with them instead. Use mediation, not a proxy.
- gardenhedge 4y agoThe colleague talking seems to be the problem :) GP is supposed to mediate while at work while their colleague is talking in circles?
- vorpalhex 4y agoYes, that is literally how you solve interpersonal problems. You pull the person aside and discuss the problem.
- gardenhedge 4y agoIt was a small joke. That is a very simplistic view of the world. That approach may solve your problem but it also may not.