Some ideas: * Ask about non computer interests and support the heck out of them * Ask about career and life goals and support the heck out of them * Help the

Some ideas: * Ask about non computer interests and support the heck out of them * Ask about career and life goals and support the heck out of them * Help them buy a car if they need one * Require a small amount of rent each month so they need to hold a job. Bonus points for saving this rent money and gifting it back to them when they eventually move out on their own. * family therapy could be a good option if communication is difficult or strained It’s less about strict limits on computer time and more about not enabling the behavior and providing support and guidance towards more responsibility and independence. Also, if they are self sufficient and thriving then how they spend their time shouldn’t matter.