> There's not a word of how you might help the kid be less of a hermit, lose less friends, find a job, take care of themselves. I understand your comment and I

> There's not a word of how you might help the kid be less of a hermit, lose less friends, find a job, take care of themselves. I understand your comment and I just want to say that my comment is assuming we're past that point that you're talking about. I didn't want to write an article. Some kids can be stubborn. Anecdote: My great grandma tried that with my great uncle (all carrot) and he lived in her basement playing videos games until he died of a heart attack. I thought he had the best life because he got to be lazy, but it didn't server him very well. The end. Being a pushover and being considerate is a very fine line that is easy to fuck up.