there is a power relationship between those people, and they are being paid quite well to engage privately. Of course it is obnoxious if you have any empathy at

there is a power relationship between those people, and they are being paid quite well to engage privately. Of course it is obnoxious if you have any empathy at all -- many employers remove empathy as "weak" .. they have key-word one liners between each other to signal about it. not fun