You aren't stupid. Companies love to promote the idea that work is a second family. It isn't, it's a cut throat place, where even "work friends/family" would t

You aren't stupid. Companies love to promote the idea that work is a second family. It isn't, it's a cut throat place, where even "work friends/family" would throw you under the bus for a promotion or a raise. You should always keep a distance from coworkers. They could report you to HR for anything even after hours. Highly recommend reading "Corporate Confidential"