I’m in the same spot as you, more or less. What has allowed me to settle down is picking all the milestones I want to accomplish before I die. House remodel, tr

I’m in the same spot as you, more or less. What has allowed me to settle down is picking all the milestones I want to accomplish before I die. House remodel, travel, health/fitness, personal hobbies. It’s then fun to talk about these with my, finding out what her milestones are, and grinding together to achieve them.