Typically they are referring to their best life, but most will never make it, because things like this, or racism, discrimination, trauma, bills, all get in the

Typically they are referring to their best life, but most will never make it, because things like this, or racism, discrimination, trauma, bills, all get in the way and make them fall behind. Pretty soon they add up and you can never catch up to your best life. You either settle for what you have; peacefully or bitterly.