One thing I had to learn is how to share my miseries with my friends. (In limited amounts) if you don't share your friends won't feel empowered/comfortable enou

One thing I had to learn is how to share my miseries with my friends. (In limited amounts) if you don't share your friends won't feel empowered/comfortable enough to share and you might lose an opportunity to help them. Important addendum is to to spread the miseries around so that no one friend is overloaded