I've noticed that often in sports, it's the guy who reacts to a foul that gets called instead of the cool, collected, nefarious originator. What movements/teac

I've noticed that often in sports, it's the guy who reacts to a foul that gets called instead of the cool, collected, nefarious originator. What movements/teachings/oppressions in society are causing the pressure that results in these kinds of outbursts?