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I’m 5’10” and 150lb - weight loss isn’t the issue. Body composition and gaining muscle mass is all I need to do. (I mean - gain a few inches of height would be
by bradlys 4y ago
I’m 5’10” and 150lb - weight loss isn’t the issue. Body composition and gaining muscle mass is all I need to do. (I mean - gain a few inches of height would be nice but I’m not willing to go that far) Surgery would help with facial issues. (I’m okay but not good)
The rest being figuring out an image that sells well to modern high earning women is what I’d need help with. My image currently definitely isn’t pulling them out of the woodwork to find me.
- ricopags 4y agoMaybe focus less on the 'image problem' and more on building an embodied internal sense of joy and wonder. Being a person worth getting to know goes a long way to finding someone. You can possess more of a spark of attraction by believing yourself to be worthy of a mate. Also doing away with the framing you have on physical attractiveness may help. I would suggest putting that 50k into yoga and improv training and a relationship counselor to unwind any buried issues you may have lurking that are creating 'leaky energy'. Wanting overmuch the thing you don't have sends exactly the opposite message you're trying to. Desperation reeks.
- bradlys 4y agoExcept that with online dating your point is moot. When is the last time you were single?