identical twin here - I share your experience, but at the same time I recognize that the "big" differences I see and accentuate between me and my brother are in

identical twin here - I share your experience, but at the same time I recognize that the "big" differences I see and accentuate between me and my brother are in fact laughably trivial when compared the differences between non-twins. Despite any efforts to find our different paths, we are far, far more alike than different.