> I find that hard to fit into either of what I find your very unpleasant framings of the question: Why do you find these questions unpleasant? Do you find it

> I find that hard to fit into either of what I find your very unpleasant framings of the question: Why do you find these questions unpleasant? Do you find it unpleasant to analyze the benefits of other life-changing, irrevocable decisions?