> where you see a deep similarity that you know must be genetic Sure - that's not what I meant, sorry. I meant that I had originally believed that personality

> where you see a deep similarity that you know must be genetic Sure - that's not what I meant, sorry. I meant that I had originally believed that personality was mainly the result of nurture; so I was surprised at how different each of my kids was from birth or ongoing. From my side, as a teenager I loathed my father. It was inconceivable to me that I could be anything like him. Over the years I gave up the loathing, and we got on OK. It was many years later before I reluctantly started to acknowledge that I shared many attitudes and behaviours with him. It really pissed me of when I first began to realise.