When I met my wife, the very first night, we had a really open and honest conversation about where we were/what we wanted, including talking about marriage (not

When I met my wife, the very first night, we had a really open and honest conversation about where we were/what we wanted, including talking about marriage (not to each other specifically, just we were looking to settle down). It was nice to not dance around those topics as if they were taboo, or wonder if we were wasting time by not having similar objectives.