Father of 4 here. Take care of yourself (physically, mentally), take care of the mom, take care of your relationship - all of those will make taking care of th

Father of 4 here. Take care of yourself (physically, mentally), take care of the mom, take care of your relationship - all of those will make taking care of the child far easier. Beyond that, the kids grow up really fast. Very likely by the time you master their current stage they’re on to the next. Keep up! Also, kids are fun. Each stage. Find a way to acknowledge and enjoy the person they are and are growing into.