Congrats! Honestly babies are all very different so lots of advice wont work. Try to be hands on. I see lots of Moms doing all the work. It looks like they're

Congrats! Honestly babies are all very different so lots of advice wont work. Try to be hands on. I see lots of Moms doing all the work. It looks like they're coping but its super hard. As a test try looking after the baby by yourself a few hours, its exhausting. This is down the road but related, try to normalize grandparents or other parents doing babysitting. Its easy to do all the work yourself but its brutal. Be social. Hopefully the mother will have friends with babies, if not get some. You should be the same, it really helps to have other parents in the same position you can swap notes with. Take lots of videos. Its hard to believe but soon you wont remember how they looked or sounded at that age.