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Works well with mine. He’s got 3 choices most mornings.
by TedDoesntTalk 4y ago
Works well with mine. He’s got 3 choices most mornings.
- mcv 4y agoIt doesn't with mine, I'm afraid. I frequently give them 1-3 options and they shoot them all down (even pancakes?!). Eventually I give up and ask them what they want, and they still don't know, or just want to eat nothing.
- mlyle 4y agoOK, sure, offering a choice of what to eat when they're not excited about the idea of eating isn't going to generate a response. I almost never ate breakfast as a kid... unless there was leftover cake or something I could sneak...
- splintercell 4y ago> Eventually I give up and ask them what they want, and they still don't know, or just want to eat nothing. I force a choice on mine, and she immediately 'strongly' choose the other one, which I reject, which makes her want it even more.
- svnt 4y agoIt’s because they’ve learned that they can say no and you’ll keep coming up with more options. They’ve exited the game because you created the exit by failing to enforce the boundary.
- sfrigon 4y agoYeah I've experienced this when I was young. My mom was running a daycare at home, and I would sometimes try to help at lunchtime. Me: <Kid's name>, do you want apple juice? No. Do you want orange juice? No. Do you want grape juice? No. Well that's all we've got, which one do you prefer? None, I want something else. ... and obviously whatever we had would not do. My mom who saw I was not efficient enough: Okay <kid's name> do you want apple or orange juice? Orange. My first reaction was "but I already suggested it", but I got better after a while.
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