This is a super weird attitude to me (a man). I was absolutely looking for a partner, and I did not care even a little whether she cooked. And physical attract

This is a super weird attitude to me (a man). I was absolutely looking for a partner, and I did not care even a little whether she cooked. And physical attractiveness is extremely subjective and not the highest on my list (although obviously it is important). But to each their own I guess.