I really appreciate you speaking up. It means a lot to women to see men want more than an indentured servant/sex worker. I'm really sorry to hear about your tr

I really appreciate you speaking up. It means a lot to women to see men want more than an indentured servant/sex worker. I'm really sorry to hear about your troubles with your ex-wife. I can imagine it could be really depressing/invalidating to lose a job and not know where to turn. Luckily, as a single person, we don't really have the option of not working so there's an energy and force behind finding a vocation. I sometimes think in a different reality, I might enjoy teaching and raising children while my husband worked. It's a ton of work though and you don't really get any down time, which is hard. I did this before when I was dating someone who had a son, but I also worked. I still found it very fulfilling. When I was a teacher, I always found the kids who were the most grounded were the ones who had a stay-at-home dad. I think it's nice for kids when one parent is there just for the child rearing. Some random thoughts and musings, but it's really really tough when both people don't have interests outside the marriage. I'm sorry you and your ex had to go through this.