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The signal must be costly otherwise it is not a signal.
by fdhsbjasvh 4y ago
The signal must be costly otherwise it is not a signal.
- em-bee 4y agoif you truly love someone then you care about their happiness, and that includes caring about their interests. you should naturally want to support their interests because you want to make them happy.
- fdhsbjasvh 4y agoThat’s why it’s a hack. It’s unreasonably effective. Waiting for true love is how people end up alone.
- em-bee 4y agotrue love is the goal that you want to develop with your current partner. you do it by caring about them and their interests, and getting them to care about yours. the point is: don't just pretend to be interested. but try to honestly care. if you honestly love this person, you should be able to. pretending may help to get you started, but if you have to keep pretending, you may end up unhappy. better find something else to love about your partner.
- fdhsbjasvh 4y agoIf you don’t want to use a hack to get something you want then don’t.
- em-bee 4y agoif i love my partner, i don't need to hack it, i just need to extend that love to everything about them.