Your candidate must be a big risk taker: perhaps he's heliskiing now or sailing on a fancy boat? He'd have to make a life changing decision to marry you after j

Your candidate must be a big risk taker: perhaps he's heliskiing now or sailing on a fancy boat? He'd have to make a life changing decision to marry you after just weeks of knowing you: so he's either careless (and thus a poor loser) or is exceptionally good at assessing risk.