Are checklists common in the western/modern dating scene? I came up with the concept of checklist from my female friends in the USA. I found the concept bizarr

Are checklists common in the western/modern dating scene? I came up with the concept of checklist from my female friends in the USA. I found the concept bizarre. FWIW, male 35 yo here, background 3rd world asian country. I never had any checklist.