I'm same age and a woman (but lesbian). My perspective is different though but I do understand. My advice - don't focus on the end goal. Which seems to be mult

I'm same age and a woman (but lesbian). My perspective is different though but I do understand. My advice - don't focus on the end goal. Which seems to be multiple: - Be married - Have kids - Be in love Those goals are all achievable by themselves and each one leads you toward the holy trinity. Meet people that you can connect with. As a nerd who loves data analysis, you have 120 dates of data you can look into to determine trends. What was the good/bad parts of each date? That might help narrow things down for the future dates. A lot of men are looking for atleast one of those (sometimes all of the above), but I've seen my male friends get overwhelmed for a lack of a better term when faced with all of them at once. I know that's not the quick fix advice you want but I think that's the honest truth. There's lots of men out there. Freezing your eggs is a possibility but I can understand the challenges/reluctance in that. Good luck and I hope you will come back to this post in a year and add "PS. I found the love of my life and we're having twins!"