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That's 60 dates a year. You're talking to the next guys before you ever give anyone a chance.
by phrozenone 4y ago
That's 60 dates a year. You're talking to the next guys before you ever give anyone a chance.
- PhaedrusV 4y agoGood point. >1 date a week, when it takes at least a few weeks to set up a quality date, means that you never establish a credible commitment. What if you tried limiting yourself to 1 new person a month? You'll evaluate them more favorably, and be more selective, and get less burned out
- PhaedrusV 4y agoThe "it's a numbers game" thing is a hack to get people out of the trap of not seeing enough new people. You're on the other end of the chart. Commitment is a learnable skill, not something that goes easily once you find the perfect person.