Religion found a solution to this, although it's not a solution that many people like. Unfortunately religion is thought to be a collection of beliefs, but in p

Religion found a solution to this, although it's not a solution that many people like. Unfortunately religion is thought to be a collection of beliefs, but in practice it's largely about regulating sexual desires which lead to a healthy relationship and then a family. I'm not saying it's the only solution or even desirable, but that there doesn't seem to be a secular alternative.