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These are three options, there are more: Option 1: Expand the pool - learn to be turned on by and interested in a wider variety of people. Option 2: Convert a
by flitzofolov 4y ago
These are three options, there are more:
Option 1: Expand the pool - learn to be turned on by and interested in a wider variety of people.
Option 2: Convert an existing relationship, perhaps a platonic friendship, to a mutually beneficial partnership.
Option 3: Genuinely give up, allow yourself to relieve yourself of any expectations, and try to become mindful of the internal pressures you are applying on yourself as a reaction to your own childhood etc.
- actfrench 4y agoOption 2 sounds most interesting and fun. Option 3 is what feels most effective but also impossible to force. Option 1 I have really really done. I’ve dated such a huge variety…
- flitzofolov 4y agoIn what sense were the people you dated varied? Gender? Age? Class? Race? Nationality? Geography? Lifestyle? What are your expectations of your potential partner?