3 ms·

Almost all of them asked me out again, but there were really compelling reasons it wasn’t a fit. The ones I did go out with again and I really tried to stretch

Almost all of them asked me out again, but there were really compelling reasons it wasn’t a fit. The ones I did go out with again and I really tried to stretch myself, usually ended up ghosting me. I think they were playing the field.

moralestapia 4y ago
>but there were really compelling reasons it wasn’t a fit Care to elaborate?
lulzury 4y ago
What are some of those reasons? To many here, it sounds like you're being too picky.
baremetal 4y ago
i think there are a shortage of men who want to have a baby with a 41 year old woman. market dynamics.
- ifelsethenyeah 4y ago
  True that. An older woman makes me think birth defects, less agreeable, more jaded, less spontaneous, less flexible, worrying more, and less energetic for weekend adventures. These are mostly stereotypes that don't hold for all cases. The birth defects part is the only statistical one. I (44m S NM NK MAANG) inadvertently have much younger gfs (19-27), Master's- / PhD-types who also tend to be more emotionally and life mature than most people of any age. I guess it might be "market dynamics" when I'm dating them and they announce that they're bi or pan, whether it's a college phase or they're actually that. I don't understand why that happens or why women try to set me up with other women. It doesn't make sense. I piss with the equipment I was issued and don't look a gift horse.
  - baremetal 4y ago
    im not sure we are suppose to have preferences, these days.
    - ifelsethenyeah 4y ago
      Sorry, I don't know what you mean by that. If "supposed" implies judgements from vague "them", I don't really care what "they" think.
      - baremetal 4y ago
        good
dudul 4y ago
Almost 120 men asked you on a second date and you always found compelling reasons to not accept? I think we have a winner.
- postsantum 4y ago
  Ffs. This piece of information should be sticked This is literally the meme situation https://i.redd.it/zm3wo9fg9uv81.jpg https://i.redd.it/zm3wo9fg9uv81.jpg

moralestapia 4y ago

>but there were really compelling reasons it wasn’t a fit Care to elaborate?

lulzury 4y ago

What are some of those reasons? To many here, it sounds like you're being too picky.

baremetal 4y ago

i think there are a shortage of men who want to have a baby with a 41 year old woman. market dynamics.

ifelsethenyeah 4y ago
True that. An older woman makes me think birth defects, less agreeable, more jaded, less spontaneous, less flexible, worrying more, and less energetic for weekend adventures. These are mostly stereotypes that don't hold for all cases. The birth defects part is the only statistical one. I (44m S NM NK MAANG) inadvertently have much younger gfs (19-27), Master's- / PhD-types who also tend to be more emotionally and life mature than most people of any age. I guess it might be "market dynamics" when I'm dating them and they announce that they're bi or pan, whether it's a college phase or they're actually that. I don't understand why that happens or why women try to set me up with other women. It doesn't make sense. I piss with the equipment I was issued and don't look a gift horse.
- baremetal 4y ago
  im not sure we are suppose to have preferences, these days.
  - ifelsethenyeah 4y ago
    Sorry, I don't know what you mean by that. If "supposed" implies judgements from vague "them", I don't really care what "they" think.
    - baremetal 4y ago
      good

dudul 4y ago

Almost 120 men asked you on a second date and you always found compelling reasons to not accept? I think we have a winner.

postsantum 4y ago
Ffs. This piece of information should be sticked This is literally the meme situation https://i.redd.it/zm3wo9fg9uv81.jpg https://i.redd.it/zm3wo9fg9uv81.jpg