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> was treated pretty terribly at times. Most people were. But unfortunately you will get treated pretty terribly throughout your life. And so you need to dev
by threeseed 4y ago
> was treated pretty terribly at times.
Most people were. But unfortunately you will get treated pretty terribly throughout your life.
And so you need to develop those social skills at some point.
- steve_adams_86 4y agoAbsolutely. I grew up with a mild disability so it might have been a little worse than average, which is why I mention it. I went through most of grade 3 with a list in in the top right of the chalk board titled “Stupid List”, and for the remainder of the year after it was written, I was the only one on there. These kinds of experiences weren’t uncommon for me. My sister is a year older and more evidently disabled, and we were obvious targets for the kids we grew up with. You’re right though. I lived through it fine, I’ve done okay, and the experience informed me about life and people in truly useful ways that I’ve come to value. Ideally I’d like my kids to avoid the worst of what I experienced, but I don’t want to shelter them by any means. I think there are some forms of prolonged cruelty from peers that risks being very destructive, in particular.