I am very confused why this got down voted.. I'm on the spectrum myself, and I see a lot of my own "sense of how things work" in his behavior (not the cheating,

I am very confused why this got down voted.. I'm on the spectrum myself, and I see a lot of my own "sense of how things work" in his behavior (not the cheating, but the tendency to put my own sense of logic above the feelings of others), it just seems he is much less able understand that while his behavior may seem logical to him, it hurts and deprives his partner, and that he needs to do more, even if he can't really feel why.