> Invested in growth on every life vertical > most, of course share just a few, or understand the utility of just few of them It seems like you’ve drawn yours

> Invested in growth on every life vertical > most, of course share just a few, or understand the utility of just few of them It seems like you’ve drawn yourself into a solipsistic corner where you think you’re invested in all the good things and all the other people navigating their lives of equal richness are only skating by on some of them. Since you seem open at the moment, and invested in self-growth more generally, I’d suggest taking a humble step back and reflecting on whether this as true as you seem to think it is. More likely than what you write here, you’re invested in some specific subset of the countless worthwhile ways to devote attention and have become aware that every single other person is invested in some different subset that only partially overlaps. But that’s just sort of inevitable, right? You might be able to find the “tribe” you’re longing for with fresh and forgiving eyes in a new city, but it’s not going to be so much about the place as it will be about you being willing to accept more difference after moving than you seem to be at home.