Different strokes for different folks. At different times in their lives. Don’t expect something as subjective as happiness to also be rational. In my teen ye

Different strokes for different folks. At different times in their lives. Don’t expect something as subjective as happiness to also be rational. In my teen years, I felt trapped where I grew up so I moved to NYC. In my early 20s, I couldn’t afford Manhattan so I moved to the suburbs. In my mid 20s, I felt trapped in the suburbs so I moved [back] to NYC. In my early 30s, I felt trapped in NYC and just recently moved back to the suburbs. In 15-20 years, I’ll probably think along the lines of folks who say they want a pied-a-terre in NYC for the (non-winter) weekends and suburbs during the week.