I've come to terms with the notion that my 10yr marriage is ok. Not perfect, but also not bad. I see it as a partnership - and so does she. But if I ever got

I've come to terms with the notion that my 10yr marriage is ok. Not perfect, but also not bad. I see it as a partnership - and so does she. But if I ever got to the point where I was unhappy in her company, persistently, I think it would benefit everyone to separate. Maybe temporarily at first to see how it is for us. I don't think anyone, including your wife, would expect you to stay unhappy just because you made that offer to her 10 years ago.